Often we experience the situation don't go as we want but that go as we don't want that to go.
I want to share my past experience where I found myself helpless during my hardest times. Where I found my own son in the hospital under ventilation under hopeless condition. I was losing myself in my son. According to the doctors there was less than 1% chance to be survived under that situation. The situation was getting worst day in day out. Doctors couldn't understand the reason of that condition. The only thing that was told was my son has sepsis shot and that is it final stage. The insurance limits went crossed. His mother went emotionally destroyed.
During that lost situation I found only a door that was always opened. That was God. I asked Him with deep emotions much as I could for His help. I felt extreme peace and hope within me. Same night I slept with calm after many nights. Next morning after having few medical reports The doctor said the situation has improved. With next couple of days ventilator was removed. Just within a week his all medical reports were fine and ready to be discharged. from less than 1% chance he was perfect.
That day I found many positive changes within my personality. The more caring father. More hopeful person. I understood that we take for-grant the blessing that we have in our life. We complain about one problem having countless blessings.
The things we feel are not good for us or not as we want them to be happen. We can't fore see the situation. We may skip the things those should be considered. There is no reason to be hopeless or sad at any point of time.